10 Ways To Please Your Woman That Has Nothing To Do With A Birkin

The internet streets have been buzzing about “Birkin Bags” lately with some serious arguments on Twitter stemming from a video posted by Rapper Saweetie.

In her video, in summary, she said if a man isn’t buying you a Birkin or paying your bills, throw him back to the street.

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We have a slightly different take on the argument. When you are in a serious relationship, a Birkin or three might be enticing at first, but in our experience, just buying bags can get a bit boring regardless of how expensive they are.

Women are multifaceted, they are complicated but in a good way and one of the joys of any relationship is finding different ways to please her and make her smile.

In this post, we are going to share 10 ways you can please your woman that has nothing to do with buying a Birkin.

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1. Have a purpose

Fellas, we need to talk about our purpose in life. Many of us got it all wrong. There shouldn’t be any guessing with a high-value man, his intentions, his purpose and his drive are clear.

When a man is grounded and know’s his WHY he can move through life strategically, with precision and confidence.

There is a real distinction between men who watch TV, get high, play games (video and relationship games) and have nothing to show for it, versus a man that works hard (smart) and plans his next 5 to 10 moves ahead in life.

This is a good trait to develop, women are attracted to men with purpose.

2. Be a producer and about that bag

Gentlemen, you have to be about that bag, no pun intended. You have to make money or at least be on the right path to getting money, legally of course.

You must position yourself in your endeavors to get tangible results (money) consistently. In order to do this, there needs to be a system in place where your success and reward are measurable and repeatable.

The ladies want stability guys, not just a bag (Birkin) every now and then. See point 3 below.

3. Provide stability – Pay her bills

We are not suggesting you be a sucka but fellas, the ladies need and want protection and stability. They need to know that you at least have the ability to keep them covered. That means you need good self-management and control of your resources.

The one thing Saweetie touched on we have to agree with is if you are in a serious relationship and you notice that she has student loans or something she is struggling with, why not help out.

If you are in it together, nobody should be struggling, put your heads together and let her know you got her on anything. If you have a high-value woman, she will do the same for you!

4. Know how to seduce your woman

Figure out her habits and execute on them. You can do this with the big things and the little things.

For example. If your girl religiously uses a certain face mask or moisturizer and you hear her saying she can’t live without this particular product, make an effort to keep her stocked up.

Don’t just hand her the product though, make it nice, presentation is everything, but get her 20 bottles of whatever it is, put it in a gift basket with a simple note.

She will appreciate not only the gift but the fact that you noticed what she actually likes will go a long way.

5. Plan the entire vacation – Make plans and follow through

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Bro! If you haven’t tried this yet you are missing out! Plan the whole thing and be a master of the details. If she really loves the beach, pick a spot, and plan the ultimate Bae-cation.

Know your woman and ask the right questions ahead of time. This way, you can pack her essentials, you already know what she likes and dislikes, what she reads, and other interests, and when she gets home just tell her to pack whatever you missed because yall are about to head out in few hours!

Make sure you cover everything she would be concerned about prior to going on the trip.

Bonus tip: Be bold and lock down the next adventure before the current one ends. Thank us later.

6. Take care of you

Listen, things happen, but you are of no use to her if you aren’t good. Taking care of yourself should be high on your priority list because it not only makes you feel better but you become a better man for it. Go to therapy, go to the gym, read, and eat well.

Keep it simple:

• Eat clean
• Exercise
• Never stop learning and investing in yourself.

7. Take the pictures

This one is fun but don’t underestimate it. Fellas, you know if you are really into your woman, you have pics of her. These pics might be on social media, your wallet, or most likely your phone.

If not, learn her angles and take pics of her. Don’t say we didn’t tell you, you see all that love these husbands of Instagram get, stop playing!

Hype her up!

8. Support her dreams

What that brother Vedo say? “It’s time to boss up, get your bag up, girl get at it” (not in that order). If she needs to study, take the kids to the park and give her some quiet time.

If she staying up answering emails, stay up with her until it’s time to go to sleep, hell answer some of those emails with her.

If you see a book on Amazon that you think will help her solve a problem in her business, have it delivered to her stat!

9. Be a high-quality leader

Take responsibility for yourself and the people around you. This is good for any man and black men in particular. Taking care of yourself and your loved ones are the most important traits of good leadership.

Sometimes you not only have to shoulder your burdens but you have to help shoulder the burdens of those around you.

10. Love and Loyalty

Do you know what’s better than any Birkin? Trust!

If you are in a monogamous relationship with the understanding that it’s just you and her, she should be emotionally comfortable.

There is no point in buying her the most expensive things and she can’t even trust you when you go out to the grocery store.

A monogamous relationship is just as much your decision as it is hers, if you aren’t ready, don’t even waste your time and definitely do not waste hers.

Love and loyalty can take her places no Birkin can.

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